Monthly Archives: September 2010

29 Gifts: An MS Patient’s Book About Giving

I’ve been swamped with school work as of late, but before I jumped into the fray, I had a chance to do a little summer reading and the book 29 Gifts felt much like a gift given to me by a good friend (it was actually suggested to me by an acquaintance with a great deal of insight about the values of selfless giving: I had learned about this book through another MS patient whom I’d recently met at the Nat’l Multiple Sclerosis Society’s annual walk.) So in a respect, I was given this book as a gift to open my mind and find a new way of focusing on others and giving freely of both time and assets.

The book’s author, Cami Walker, recaps her ventures of giving away 29 things during 29 days. As a recently-diagnosed MS patient, she is trying to find her way back to a stable and productive life, something that can be very difficult for those with multiple sclerosis. One of the most satisfying aspects of the read is the author’s positive change over the course of the month of giving: she goes from struggling with the effects of a bad relapse to rallying and making not only physical gains, but emotional strides. Walker learns the benefits of selfless giving not only for the recipients, but also for herself. In the process she decides to create a website to share her new-found knowledge: www.29gifts.org. People are encouraged to try the 29 day challenge of selfless giving and to write about their experiences on the website.

*I’m finding myself considering the challenge as well. : )

John Ritter

<a onblur=”try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}” href=”http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_lGIKTn_V0hU/SqrDCXHh0FI/AAAAAAAAAkA/GZO6p4MhrTA/s1600-h/ritter.jpg”><img style=”margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 240px;” src=”http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_lGIKTn_V0hU/SqrDCXHh0FI/AAAAAAAAAkA/GZO6p4MhrTA/s400/ritter.jpg” alt=”” id=”BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5380327150180225106″ border=”0″ /></a><br />I almost forgot about this little-known fact. I remember when John <span id=”SPELLING_ERROR_0″>Ritter</span>, master of comedy as well as drama, died.  I was doing a brief subbing stint for a middle school and a student casually mentioned this— heard by way of a parent— and I could have been knocked over by a feather. I stopped what I was doing and came to full attention. How could such a vibrant, funny, attractive, and YOUNG guy possibly have died? As it was, MANY similar men and women had met their fates on this day in 2001, and yet something about this comedian’s death really struck me. Perhaps it was the recognizable face.<br /><br />Today I sat at the PC in my library cubicle and loaded children’s books into the database (as usual) when I suddenly came across a Clifford book and my memory was instantly jogged. You see, the character Clifford the Big Red Dog was animated by John <span id=”SPELLING_ERROR_1″>Ritter</span>. This man’s amicable, easy voice came into thousands of children’s homes and brought to life one of their favorite characters. Heck: it’s STILL one of my favorites and I vividly remember my second grade teacher reading Clifford’s adventures to us. What would this big red dog do next? When Clifford came to television, I again began to follow him. The fact that zany “Jack Tripper” infused this character with life was icing on the cake.<br /><br />I have a lot of respect for actors who have mastered both comedy and drama. This is a huge challenge, and I can only think of several— off hand— whom I think have done it well: John <span id=”SPELLING_ERROR_2″>Ritter</span>, Billy Bob Thornton, Robin Williams, Mary Tyler Moore, Carol Burnett, and maybe Tom Hanks. They’re all that immediately come to mind from my lifespan. “<span id=”SPELLING_ERROR_3″>Slingblade</span>”, one of my favorite movies, demonstrates both <span id=”SPELLING_ERROR_4″>Ritter’s</span> and Thornton’s abilities for the profound.<br /><br />It’s odd to think that out of such a grave, desperate date on the calendar one can lift up a talented, well-loved person from which to draw creativity, vibrancy, and authenticity. And to celebrate exactly why he/she was here. Although we leave under different circumstances, we are all human in our earthly forms and fragile in our collective exquisiteness.<input id=”gwProxy” type=”hidden”><!–Session data–><input onclick=”jsCall();” id=”jsProxy” type=”hidden”><div id=”refHTML”></div>